Where are you based?
I am based in Mermaid Waters on the Gold Coast. I also tour, so please keep an eye out on my home page for details of tour dates. If you would like to request I tour somewhere or would like to book me for a travel companion overseas please contact me. Details of location will be given when booking an appointment.
If I drive is there parking nearby?
There is often free parking near where I am staying.
Do you have shower facilities?
Yes, you will be asked to use the shower before your session and welcome to use it after your session.
How much do you charge?
Please see my rates here
Do you offer hand relief or a happy ending?
Whilst the massage I do includes massaging the lingam (penis) or yoni it is a very different experience from a massage with hand relief. I hope you will find it to be a much more profound one. The page on Tantric Massage explains this in more detail.
Can I ejaculate during the session?
I encourage you to try to let go of your attachment to this form of release. Orgasm and ejaculation are actually different, and it is possible to have an orgasm without ejaculation and this is what we will work towards. We want to spend as much of the session as possible building the energy so that your experience can be at the very least more highly pleasurable and hopefully also more deeply profound. However, I allow ejaculation to be a choice for you and there will be no judgement around this.
Do you include prostate massage?
Yes, sessions can include prostate massage if desired and you can also book a prostate pleasure session designed specifically for exploring this.
Do you wear gloves during the massage?
I always wear gloves when doing internal prostate work. If I have any cuts on my hands I will always wear gloves whilst massaging the lingam or Yoni in case you have any condition that would require me to protect my health and that of my other clients. Please be responsible and tell me if there is a condition that you have that I need to be aware of.
Can I touch you during the tantric massage?
If you feel the need to make a connection with me during a tantric massage it is OK to place a hand on my body to do so, however no genital or breast touch is allowed on me is allowed as this session is about you receiving and touching me can take you out of that. If I feel this is bringing you out of your internal experience I will gently discourage it. If you want a mutual touch session I suggest booking an intimate touch session.
Can I exchange massages with you?
Yes, this is offered in the intimate touch tantra session.
Do you work with any elements of BDSM?
I can include light BDSM in an intimate touch or Loving Domination Ritual session.
Can you teach me how to give a tantric massage?
Yes, if you have a genuine reason for wanting to learn this I can offer this service.
I am nervous about having a tantra session, what should I do?
If this is a new experience for you it is understandable that you may be a bit nervous about it, we can talk and connect before we begin about what you are nervous about. If you have specific issues around your sexuality or physical performance we can also talk about these. Generally once you are in the sessions you will find yourself much more relaxed and your nerves will disappear as you become fully present in your body and out of the mind.
I want a Tantric Massage but also have some physical issues I would like deeper healing for, can you do this?
I am a sex coach and sexual healer and am able to do some deeper healing work on specific problem areas in a combined session. I recommend a longer session for this – please contact me to discuss.