SLUT = Sexually Liberated with Unlimited Talents

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I’M A SLUT AND I KNOW YOU ARE TOO!

First, let me redefine the term ‘SLUT’ for you.. I like to see it as being ‘Sexually Liberated with Unlimited Talents!’ . It is not about sleeping around, it’s about embracing ourselves as the super sexual beings that we actually are! Let’s stop the slut shaming people!

If you told me years ago that I would be publically talking about sex and my sexual experiences on social media and in the media, I would not have believed you! I would be like…’Nooooo…can I say that out loud?!’

Oh yes I can and I have and I am doing it right now!

Of course posting things like this is now my normal. Sometimes I forget that other people don’t talk like this. Often when I post about it, people say, ‘wow good on for you for putting that out there.’ I’m thinking ‘oh yeah, that’s right, other people don’t’ talk about sex like this on social media, especially about their personal experiences!’ Well why the hell not? Why this can’t be everyone’s normal? We should be able to speak openly about sex!!

Arghhhhh I’m so sick of the taboo that is keeping us so damn small.

I would rather know that everyone is experiencing amazing orgasmic deeply connected experiences instead of people ranting about how shit the weather is. I want orgasms, not the weather! Actually I totally did a post about the weather being cold the other week, but hey, at least I was also having orgasms whilst it was cold….I’m pretty sure orgasms raise your body temperature! Hmm I’ll have to test that one out!

Years ago I had a group of friends who I would talk about sex in front of and they would give me dirty looks or whisper behind my back, scared I was going to try sleep with their boyfriends! I felt totally judged. As though I was some slut. Okay, okay I did sleep around and I was a total SLUT – yes that’s me right here, over here, thank you very much. I am sexually liberated. I have talents. I am unlimited. You can’t shame me for it, because I own that shit.

Once I left those friends I went to the extreme opposite and became a swinger! I was what they called a unicorn – a single woman in the swinging scene. This was a place where not only did I feel accepted, my sexual desires were embraced and encouraged! A place where my friends actually wanted me to sleep with their boyfriends! These were my kind of people!! I felt a sense of belonging. We were all super sluts…yessssss!!!

However, I was totally disconnected and disassociated from my body. I was either drinking or on drugs and I wasn’t consciously there. I was seeking intimacy but avoiding it at the same time. Desperately wanting to be seen, but so afraid to be seen. Every swingers party was just looking for that next ‘hit’ of sexual validation, that somehow gave me a sense of worthiness.

Let’s be clear here though… Just because I chose this lifestyle from this place it doesn’t make it wrong. It doesn’t make me bad. It makes me human. And not everyone chooses it why I did. Some people really genuinely love to express themselves sexually in this way.

So from there things got even more crazy and wild (can you even imagine?!) and eventually this led to me not even wanting to have sex at all!! Which in turn led me to deep inner work and into my path as a sexual healer and coach. I have a lot more to share on this which I’ll save for my sexy confessional book I’m currently writing, you can be in first to get a $1 copy when it’s launched – get on it here.

So I have been speaking to a lot of women lately asking them what they would love to experience sexually. The response keeps coming down to that they know they are sexual beings but they haven’t felt safe to truly express themselves, to fully own themselves as the amazing sexual beings that they know they are!! They want to reclaim this part of them, the deep slutty sluts they are! Okay that wasn’t actually their words, but ultimately there is a slut in all of us and it is time to stop hiding her! To bring her juicy goodness out into the light!

And I say it is about freaking time!

Bloody Hell our sexual desires are so suppressed! Damn you society and your bullshit conditioning and control! It is crazy how much shame there is around sex and self-pleasure. Self-pleasure is one of the greatest ways that we can practice self-care and connect to ourselves as sexual beings. The shame often comes from when we are children and we are caught being sexual. Then we just do it secretly anyway, we hide it, which then creates this shame and a lack of self-worth. Then we go out as adults seeking unhealthy and unconscious sexual experiences trying to feel worth. Then we get shamed for this and feel more shame and more lack of self-worth and we often find other ways to numb and hide ourselves and it just becomes a vicious shame cycle!! Eeeeek!!

When really all we need to do is to love and embrace ourselves as the super sexual beings we know deep down truly are! To embrace the SLUT!! I say that sex education in school really needs to be around this!! Can you imagine a class on how to be a slut?! A healthy slut. Slutty Education. Slut School. Un-Religious Sexducation. Hmmm….how about a class on ‘How to be Sexually Liberated and embrace your Unlimited Talents’ – yes please!

But seriously we really need to be teaching children how to embrace their sexuality and express this in a healthy way! I would have rathered this than being taught the old boring anatomy shit that half of us don’t even remember. And really, does any man’s penis look or feel like a banana?! C’mon…please!! Actually my all girls catholic school never got taught that either. Where was my banana huh?! Interestingly, we had the highest rate of pregnancies at school in the country. However, I remained a virgin my whole school life, and lost my virginity to my ex-husband who I married when I was just 17 years..that story will be in my book too!

Oh yes…. I was the ‘good girl’!! The slut in me was a late bloomer! But when she did… oh boy did she bloom!!

So what if the key to true happiness, love and full self-worth really is just to deeply love this part of us? To connect to ourselves on a sexual level? To heal our shame that we have so deeply stored inside of ourselves? That has in fact been stored inside our genitals? That has been stopping us from feeling the full orgasmic pleasure that we are supposed to feel!!

Let’s stop the shame. Stop the Stigma and RECLAIM ourselves as the sexual beings we are!!

As SLUTS – As Sexually Liberated with Unlimited Talents!!

P.S. My Free 5 Day Sexual Healing Challenge for women is on! This is about reclaiming ourselves as sexual beings and healing the shame that has been stored in our bodies and stopping us from feeling the multi-orgasmical experiences that I know we are all capable of!

LADIES: Join in by joining my closed facebook group of soulful, sexual women.

MEN: if you want your own challenge, join me here and I’ll email you when I launch it!

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This entry was posted on August 22, 2016. 1 Comment

Hold Her Heart and Her Body will Open

A few weeks ago I was held by a man like I had never been held before. 

When I say ‘held’ I don’t mean physically, although that also happened. 

After having dinner and chatting for hours, I asked him how he was feeling and he expressed his desire to be more close to me physically. 
I instantly when into feeling like a 15 year old school girl who was about to be kissed by the boy she likes! 

Before I would feel completely open to him touching me, I needed to express my vulnerabilities.

I expressed the imagining that I had that I needed to appear to be amazing in bed because I am a sex coach and thinking that he may expect me to perform or please him in a certain way. 

I expressed that I didn’t want to be in a teacher role with him, when really I am just so longing to let go of the need to do that and to just surrender. 

I also expressed that my boundary was to not have sex with him yet. 
He fully listened and honoured all of this and then his expressed his own vulnerabilities to me, which made me feel so safe. 

It was a beautiful safe feeling to be fully heard in our vulnerabilities and boundaries before even touching, which created a deeper level of intimacy.

And then I said ‘I know I am just talking to feel safe now, so I think you better touch me’ 

Then he kissed me… softly, slowly, passionately. Mmmm.

He then placed one hand on the back of my heart and one on the front and he held my heart whilst deeply, slowly breathing, which felt like it was being channelled from his heart into mine. 

I completely surrendered in that moment, as I had this indescribable feeling of having my heart held. 
My heart felt not only safe and supported, but completely honoured and seen as my body relaxed and I melted into his arms and let go of any of the fears or insecurities I had.  

It was like a moment in time stopped and nothing else mattered. 
Just to be held in such a loving, honouring way without any expectations was divine. 
It was an incredibly heart-opening experience. 

The only thought I had was ‘all women need to experience this’.
I realised that this is what my heart and my feminine had been longing for, for so long. 

I then felt my yoni become so activated and aroused just by him holding me in this loving way.  
We spent the next few hours exploring complete and utter surrender. 

It was an incredibly tantric experience, however there was no ‘let’s do this practice or that practice’, it was just a natural flow between us, where I surrendered to the pleasure I was feeling in my body and held me through it.

At one point he was on top of me, hip to hip breathing from his sacral chakra into my sacral chakra, my kundalini energy became so activated – still with all of our clothes on! 

I had no idea what he was doing or how he was doing it, but it felt like I was being energetically penetrated as my whole body became fully orgasmic. 

I cheekily whispered into his ear ‘what are you doing to me?’

He said ‘I have no idea really, but I can feel your pain there’

I knew what he was feeling into was all the years I had dishonoured my yoni and rejected my feminine energy, it literally felt like he was clearing blocks in my sacral chakra and sexual healing me as my yoni opened and activated my heart. 

The whole thing was an incredibly profound experience. 

I know this man is a natural sexual healer and that we are now on a healing journey together through a conscious exploration of intimacy.  
From the moment I met him I knew there was a big journey here. 

A long time ago I told myself that I would run a couple’s event when the right man came into my space for me to share this with, so it was no surprise that in the week before this experience with him that I had the insight to run a couple’s tantra weekend! 

He then offered to help me and asked me if it would be okay for him to teach some practices to the men to help them embody their masculine energy and that we could then do a ritual around men holding space and women surrendering. 

Of course, I said yes, that would be amazzzzzing! 

I want both men and women to be able to experience the feeling of having their heart held. 

I have held this man’s heart too and made it safe for him to express his emotions. 

I’ll share more about this soon also! 
At the couple’s tantra weekend I will be teaching both men’s and women’s sexuality.

We will teach practices on holding space for women to surrender, but also on women holding space for men too and how they can do this from a feminine space.

I know that what we going to teach is something that couple’s are longing for in not just their sex lives, but their whole relationship. 

As I said at the start, words cannot describe the feeling of having your heart held and the way that then opens your body up and activates your sex centre. 

If you want to come along to the couple’s weekend, which is at the end of October, please see the event info here 

If you are not a couple or wish to do this work on your own first, I also have separate women’s and men’s events, programs and sessions on all of this. Please contact me to discuss your needs xx 

This entry was posted on September 8, 2017. 2 Comments

Exploring Tantra for Couples – Weekend Workshop


NEXT GOLD COAST WORKSHOP:  

Sat and Sun 28th – 29th October

This is an invite for 10 couples to learn about tantra and spend 2 days consciously exploring intimacy and tantric practices with their partner.

We will explore:-

  • Understanding what Tantra actually is and the profound power of sexual healing
  • The importance of boundaries and consent when it comes to pleasure and exploring practices around this
  • Conscious communication both in and out of the bedroom to create more vulnerability and emotional safety
  • Understanding the difference between how men and women are wired and what each of them truly needs from each other to experience a deeper level of intimacy and connection
  • Exploring Men’s Sexuality, Sexual Issues and Sexual Healing Practices for Men
  • Exploring Women’s Sexuality, Sexual Issues and Sexual Healing Practices for Women
  • How to hold space for a woman so she feels fully safe to open up sexually and surrender to pleasure.
  • How to hold space for a man whilst being in your feminine energy, making him safe for him to fully express himself.
  • Shifting out of friction-based sex and into surrendered sexual expression where you can both have the most intense pleasure and orgasmic experiences of your lives
  • Tantric Breathwork – incorporating breath, sound, touch and movement – these practices help you to reach full body orgasmic states (with regular practice)
  • Understanding her numbness and pain spots and how you can de-armour her with your hands and penis.
  • Tantric Massage Demonstrations including Lingam Massage for Men and Breast and Yoni Massage for Women. After 7pm you will be welcome to go home and practice these yourself or welcome to stay til 9.30pm in the space to practice.

Many of the practices are hands on with your partner, but you only have to go to the level you feel comfortable with.

Nudity is completely optional unless you wish to practice tantric massage in the space from 7.30pm. We will be hosting sacred practice space each night for those who wish to stay on til 9.30pm.

We will also be talking about boundaries and consent before going into any touch practices.

We have a high value for creating an extremely safe, sacred and comfortable space for everyone.

WHAT DOES IT INCLUDE?

  • The 2 Day Workshop from 9.30am until 7.30pm (this is non-residential).
  • Lunch, Snacks, Water and Tea are included.
  • Videos of Breast Massage, Yoni Massage and Lingam Massage.
  • Access to Men’s and Women’s Private Facebook Groups for ongoing sharing and support.

This is limited to 10 couples only and there are over 40 on the interested list, so it is best to secure your place ASAP!

All previous workshops and retreats have been sold out in advance, so make sure you get your secure your place now so you don’t miss out!

If you can’t make these dates, but still want to come along, please email ej@ejlove.com to let us know so we can let you know about future dates.

TICKETS / PRICING (in $USD):

  • Earlybird (before 30th Sept) – $697 per couple
  • Normal price (after 30th Sept) – $797 per couple
  • Payment Plan – $297p/mth for 3 months.

Paying individually – you will need to pay together and work out the money between yourselves.

BUY TICKETS HERE 

WHAT TO BRING: 

  • An open mind!
  • A pen
  • Journal / paper if you want to take notes.

LOCATION:

73 Estelle Road, Currumbin Valley.

TESTIMONIALS FROM OTHER TANTRA WORKSHOPS:

‘Hi Ej, Such a potent workshop. I am still assimilating all that information. It was beautiful to witness the surrender of woman. Thank you for creating this workshop, it shakes your foundations in a good way and I will never be the same.’

‘EJ, I just wanted to say again thank you so much for yesterday. The work you do and the energy you teach from is pure, passionate and love filled. I got a lot out of yesterday. The content was all things I was hoping we would cover!

It is fantastic you have another running – it’s truly one of the greatest workshops I’ve ever done. I really enjoyed the group we had and I’m stoked I could contribute.’

YOUR FACILITATOR: 

EJ Love has vast knowledge on Love, Relationships, Intimacy and Sex combined has led to her being aptly dubbed the Love Priestess where she helps her clients to empower and heal themselves in Relationships, Love, Intimacy and Sex.

With studies in Love and Relationships as well as personal development she has created online programs, one on one coaching, workshops and retreats which have helped hundreds of women and men to move forward with confidence in their love and sex lives.

EJ is a well known speaker and is highly sought after by the media. She is a regular writer for magazines interviewed on podcasts and radio shows and has also been featured on national TV, such as The Morning Show and Studio 10.

SECURE YOUR TICKET HERE

Tantric Sex, Sexual Healing and Anal Sex

I had A LOT of fun being interviewed for Kaleidoscope Radio on Tantric Sex, Sexual Healing and we even touched on BDSM and Anal Sex! Check out the interview here.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

EPISODE 3 is here! #hollaaaaa

TANTRIC SEX and SEXUAL HEALING

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After posing the question to her group of followers, the Kaleidoscope, it was obvious to Alexa that she needed to talk to someone knowledgeable about Tantra for Kaleidoscope Radio. EJ has more than a few stories to tell, and brings a new light to the idea of Tantra, and even shares some interesting insight about an experience she had with BDSM.

EJ tells a little bit of her back story and introduce herself, her relationship with sex, swinging, and where tantra fits into the whole picture.

Alexa asks her to share her point of view on the differences between Tantra and the BDSM community, and her thoughts on BDSM in general. EJ shares an experience she had in which she felt that BDSM had a healing nature to it when done consciously.

They discuss couples first getting into erotic play, and where they start and sometimes end. They also discuss the erotic blueprint and EJ explains what exactly it is.

EJ tells the story of her marriage to herself, and talks about the inspiration behind it. She talks about self love and how valuable it is.

She also describes who Tantra tends to help, both male and female, and what variations are available to explore.

EJ and Alexa laugh about a video mishap that occurred when Alexa publicly posted a video about anal sex health to EJ’s social media profile.’

Hear the show on-
iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/…/podcast/kaleidosco…/id1267546619…
or listen directly here 
http://thevioletbutterfly.com/podcast/

SUBSCRIBE TO RECEIVE UPDATES AND ALERTS WHEN NEW SHOWS COME OUT EVERY THURSDAY!

She who Owns her Pussy, Owns her Life

Pussy Diary 1
So people keep asking me ‘how was your silent retreat?’

Welllllll….let me tell you what ‘came’ out of it…

Whilst sitting there at the silent retreat lodge, I was observing the books people had in their hands.
They were on Meditation, Mindfulness, Happiness, Earth, Food, Plants…. Hmm.

And here I was just quietly reading about PUSSY!

Yes!

Pusssssssssaaay, AKA Yoni, Vagina/Vulva, V-Jay-Jay, lady bits, honey pot, muff… well you get the drift!

A while ago I began reading the book by Regena Thomashauer called ‘Pussy, A Reclamation’, where she says that ‘She her owns her pussy, owns her life’.

I believe, this may just be my new mantra!
At least for the next few months!

Before I came to Bali, I kept getting the message from my higher self, or perhaps, as Regina calls it the ‘Great Big Pussy in the Sky’ (GPS) that –
I must RECLAIM MY PUSSY.

I was told that I must make pleasure my priority.

‘Now is the time EJ, you have to make this happen now’ the GPS told me!

I had some plans for this retreat (where I was supposed to do nothing…hmm).
I thought I could look at my business systems (yuck)
I thought that I would do some journaling and planning for the months ahead. Hmm.

But PUSSY, she stole the whole damn show!
And I love her for this.
Because Pussy is EVERYTHING.
And systems can suck.
Like really, why would I choose systems over pussy?
Boringgggg!

Now, is not to say that I actually physically played with my pussy whilst there, but there were a couple of times where I did this in a whole new way, which I will share the details of with you soon!

But more so it was about actually just tuning into her regularly, knowing what turns her on, allowing her to make my decisions, honouring her and connecting to her as the centre of my feminine essence.

So here is my DECLARATION TO RECLAIM MY PUSSY. 


I am committing myself to this journey intensively over the next few months.
Pleasure will be my priority and I would say, it will remain that way.
Otherwise, what is the whole damn point?

This means I will be saying ‘no’ to things that to not give me pleasure
And a big fat juicy ‘yes’ to everything that does!

One of the things that brings me great pleasure is to write, especially about sex, sexiness, sensuality, seduction, sassiness, sluttiness… yessssssssssss…

So you can expect me to be writing about my pussy reclamation journey rather publically (because I so don’t do that enough already, right?!)

I will be writing about my journey into harnessing my feminine power and fully reclaiming and activating my pussy.
Taking her to places and heights of ecstasy that she has never been before!

Pussy even came up with a name for this writing…. wait for it….

I present to you: THE PUSSY DIARIES!

And If this is triggering you or you can’t handle hearing all about pussy empowerment, please feel free to delete me, because I am at max friends capacity anyway I would rather have friends on here who find great pleasure from reading my posts.

Sorry family (but not sorry), safe to say I am not the good little catholic girl everyone thought growing up, but I think we already figured that out a long time ago!

So, who else wants to join me in reclaiming their pussies?
To own their pussy and own their life?
And Say ‘yes to pussy’!

I intend to share more intimately in my private women’s facebook group Soulful Sexual Women

Men, you can join my Men’s Facebook group here.

I’m going to be sharing my own pussy reclamation practices (that naturally cum to me) that you can do too on my posts here, so make sure to join my email list so you never miss a diary post – www.tinyurl.com/pussydiaries (open to everyone)

Much Love, EJ’s Pussy xx

 

 

The Truth About Erectile Dysfunction


I’ve noticed a big commonality with the men that come to see me who struggle with some sort of erectile dysfunction. 

Almost all of them have been cheated on
All of them have been emasculated by their partners or ex-partners

Many of them currently have hardly any intimacy in their life (with or without partners) 

All of them feel like less of a man. 
Lacking confidence. 

Lacking sexual self-esteem which underpins all of their self-esteem. 

Feeling like they have completely lost their mojo.
What happened to them they wonder? 

Where did they lose it? 
‘There must be something wrong with me

Perhaps I am just getting older. 

It wasn’t always this way

Please tell me this can be fixed?’
I reassure them, that yes it can be fixed.

I prefer to go with the word healed. 

I don’t believe there is anything wrong with these men.

In fact, 40% of men in their 40s have ED. 
It is extremely common, yet we don’t talk about it. 

Instead we hide it and shame it and we emasculate them even more for it.  
They are emasculated by society, they are emasculated by women and other men and mostly they emasculate themselves. 

They are so hard on themselves and their self-shaming then leads to more sexual dysfunction! 
And then the issues get worse, they get more down on themselves, less self-esteem, less confidence, more lack of worthiness and so on…  
Can you see the vicious shame cycle here? 
It can end up effecting their whole life! 

It can effect all of their relationships. 

They may start avoiding intimacy all together. 

They don’t want to disappoint their lover. 

They may get addicted to porn, masturbating or escorts. 

Hoping that this will make them feel better. 

But in the end it only ends up frustrating them more. 

They end up feeling disappointed and get down on themselves.

Sometimes even leading to depression.
They may feel like it is a lost cause. 

Again, feeling like less of man. 

Then they try viagra, sprays and/or pills, which is only treating the effect not the cause. 

This is only a quick fix and will not make change things long term.
Because the cause is EMOTIONAL. 
Yes….that’s right, all sexual issues generally stem from emotions that they have numbed for years. 
This is because men are conditioned to not be emotional. 

To not allow themselves to feel. 

Because they have been taught that it is weak to feel sadness, disappointment, hurt and even cry. 
But men don’t usually come to me asking for help with their emotions though, they come to me because they want to be a better lover, they want to be confident again, they want their mojo back, they want to be able to fully make love to a woman and provide her with amazing pleasure and orgasms! 
Ultimately, they want to feel like a man again!! 
I ask them questions, like… ‘when did this first start happening?’ and generally we will pinpoint a time where they were emasculated, betrayed, abandoned and/or rejected. 

It could have been happening their whole life! 
You see ED is linked to all of these emotions.
I listen carefully to the words they use to describe what’s happened in their life, which is usually where I identify where and how they have been emasculated. 
They have often never heard anyone identify this before and link it all up and then it all makes sense to them. 

Like a lightbulb going off! 

No wonder they have not been feeling like a man, right?
This is why the work I do is so important. 

Because it is through the sexual issues that men will feel safe to access their emotions.
And I hold space for them to do this by being understanding, empathetic, by listening, by acknowledging, by appreciating and recognising their greatness, which I see in each man that comes to see me. 
I feel tears well up in me as I write these words.

Because I really do see their greatness, it’s magnificent. 

Men are amazing creatures! 

It is my purpose to help them feel and see how amazing they are too. 
So not only does helping them to heal sexual issues help them to be a better lover, but it gives them their confidence back, it gives them greater self-esteem, it clears past resentments so they can have a more connected intimate relationship, it heals their shame and makes them feel worthy, it liberates them from emasculation, it opens their hearts and it makes them feel like a man again! 
It is then like a ripple effect out into their whole life, everyone in it and the world around them. 
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So you are probably wondering exactly what I do with men to help them with this? 
Well…. there is a lot that I do! 

I should probably do a video on this and I will do one day soon. 
In the meantime though I will share with you one thing that I’ve been exploring and is a very powerful Sexual Initiation Ritual. 
I have to say these are the most awakening, transformational sessions I have done with men to date. 
There is an initial coaching session so I can identify the emotional blocks and then I give them some pre-work to be done before they come for the sexual initiation tantric bodywork session. 

The pre-work is where I have the man focus on clearing underlying blame and resentment from being emasculated, abandoned, rejected and/or shamed, depending on what their issues are. 
This requires some journalling and clearing this out of the body through some emotional release tools and tantric practices. 
We will then go into a 3 hour Tantra Sexual Initiation Ritual, effectively taking them from emasculation into empowerment, initiating them from boy into man, like a right of passage. 
This is the role of a Sacred Sexual Priestess, to initiate men into their greatness and to open their hearts! 
It is such an honour to hold space for this. 
So if this resonates and you are struggling with any sexual, emotional or relationship issues and feel called to be initiated please contact me. Even if we are not in the same area I can still coach you via Skype and then refer you to one of my sista priestesses in your area for bodywork if I feel you need it.  
Women, if you feel called to do Sacred Sexual Priestess work and initiate men please also contact me. 
I am extremely passionate about this work and I believe it is the key to sexually liberating men, opening their hearts and transforming their relationships xx

This entry was posted on May 13, 2017. 1 Comment

Becoming a Multi-Orgasmic Man

I regularly do talks on tantra and sexual healing. The video below is of a talk I did at Sexpo on Becoming a Multi-Orgasmic Man. Watch the video below where I go more deeply into the following:-

  • Sexual Conditioning and the Addiction to Ejaculation
  • Breaking the Addiction & Rewiring your Body for Pleasure
  • Awakening your Sexual Energy and Accessing Fully Body Energy Orgasms
  • Conscious Self-Pleasure and Edging (Breath, Sound, Touch, Movement)
  • Sexual Healing for:-
    • Premature Ejaculation
    • Erectile Dysfunction
    • Lack of Pleasure or Inability to Orgasm 

If you would like to go on the journey of becoming a multi-orgasmic man and heal any sexual issues, please contact me on 0405979400 or please email me at tantraangel@outlook.com, I see both clients in person as well as via skype.

Embodying being SEXUALLY LIBERATED with UNLIMITED TALENTS

Embodying being SEXUALLY LIBERATED with UNLIMITED TALENTS (aka a SLUT)…. that’s how you celebrate being a woman. 
As some of you know I have reframed the term SLUT to the above, where I reclaim this part of me. 
This part of me that is a sexual being and refuses to be shamed for that. 
This part of me had been shut down, that had been afraid of the power of her true sexuality, which she had hidden behind being a ‘fake’ sexual woman that came from an unconscious and disconnected place. 
A woman who was only sexual to be wanted, to be valued, to be noticed, to be loved, to feel like she had control over men. 
Not really knowing that this way of being sexual had disempowered her and taken her out of her body where she had become numb to real pleasure.
Because how can you ever surrender to pleasure if you are always in control? 
I have since reconnected to my healthy slut. The slut in me that FEELS, that yearns, that longs to devour and to be devoured. 
That raw part of me, that wants to be unleashed and to be fully seen and honoured in her fuck energy. 
This part of me that knows when she is in her authentic sexual power where she feels it coming from within her not from external validation. 

……..

So last night… I danced my SLUT.

And it was so freaking liberating.

I was witnessed by 20 other women, as I was fully tuned into this part of myself that I had been shamed for so long, that I have, in the last few years, deeply grown to love. 
She was so ready to be unleashed as soon as she walked into the room! 
She was then fully received and honoured by these other sluts which only spurred her into going deeper. 

I went deeper into my Slut than I have gone before and I fucking loved it!!! 
But I have realised that I have been afraid to share my Slut energy on here. 
To share photos of me in this way. Hiding this part of me to try and appear to be ‘professional’. 

Afraid that people may judge me and think that I am trying to get attention, that I am in a shadow slut, when really I feel and know that I am sexually empowered from a healthy internal place. 
The truth is I don’t want to appear to be using my sexuality and my body to get attention like I used to.

I’m afraid to be seen as one of those women who is ‘attention seeking’ without people understanding me. 

Geeeez, we are so hard on our sistas! 

And I can see that really I’ve been in self-judgement of my old ways and therefore I’ve been afraid that other people would judge me for that too. 
I’m also afraid of the attention I would receive from men. 
Because I have been afraid to be objectified. 

It brings up feelings of getting unwanted attention. 

It feels yucky, as though it’s not honouring to me when they look at me in that way. 

But then there is a whole contradictory part of me that actually likes the attention, that thrives off of it, that wants to be noticed, appreciated and wanted.
I’m afraid to go there, to feel that, when I’ve worked so hard to heal myself and to stop using my sexuality to get attention. 
So it’s not even really about men at all, it is really about me being afraid of the massive power of my sexuality when I truly unleash it. 

  • SEXUALLY LIBERATED with UNLIMITED TALENTS (aka a SLUT)
  • Am I solid enough in my boundaries to say ‘no’? 

Yes, Of course I am, because this is what I do everyday in my sexual healing and tantra sessions. 
Where we safely and vulnerably express and explore our sexual selves whilst fully honouring each other and our boundaries. 

So now I am thinking FUCK HIDING.
Fuck what people may perceive of me! 

Fuck my own stories and judgements!

Why would I dim my light when I know that I am an extremely sensual woman?! 
And I love expressing myself in this energy! 
If you watch my Snapchats, you will have seen bits of this. 

I lovvvvve it. 

I slow down, I talk seductively, I move sensually, I touch gently, I look intensely. 

I so often get told by my clients ‘you are so sensual’!
But I have been hiding this a lot in public and around my friends. 

Usually it’s either just in my tantra sessions or in Snapchat when I express myself full sensual, sexual self. 
They are like my sacred spaces for unleashing this side of me. 

I also love being naked! 
I spend most of my time naked! 

I love dressing up in sexy outfits and lingerie too. 

I’ve so missed this part of me that loves fully embodying and expressing her Slut whether that be through my eyes, facial expression, clothes, dance, breath, sound, movement and touch. 
My Slut is so ready to express herself fully, and not be afraid of what people may think. 
I asked myself this, ‘how can I be fully sexually empowered if I was not willing to claim and share all of my sexual self?’ 
Whether that be my priestess, my wild woman, my maiden or my slut energy?  
None are more valuable or better than the other and all of them are parts of me. 
So I am here to say that I will no longer hide my Slut. 
If you see sexy looking posts from me, if you find yourself judging or assuming things about me, that is simply a reflection of the slut and sexiness you have not fully owned or loved in you. 
Because I will no longer hide the full expression of my Slut – my sexually liberated self. 
She is coming out, she will dance here, she will be seductive here, she will be sensual here, she will express herself fully here! 
No more hiding, only reclaiming!! 
Who feels me with this and is yearning to embody, feel and own their slut? 
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This entry was posted on March 13, 2017. 1 Comment